Abstract:The handling of the teacher-student relationship is a very critical issue in college education, the relationship between tutors and postgraduates which has strong interaction and complexity has a big difference with other teacher-student relationships, and it is necessary to discuss it. Based on this, this article takes the relationship between tutors and postgraduates as an example, discussing the development resistance and path construction strategies between tutors and postgraduates, and emphasizing the importance of tutors and postgraduates.